Sunday, October 23, 2005

Bobby ...

Is doing much better and we're greatful that he's up, around and OK.

In mourning

Our friend Rina passed away last night. That's about all I know right now. She was approximately 27 and her husband is left with three children to raise. Please pray for her family as they cope with this tremendous loss.

Thursday, October 20, 2005

Prayer requests

Please pray for our friend Rina. Doctors are keeping her in a medically-induced coma while they determine how to treat a postpartum heart condition. She has three children, the youngest of which is 4 months old.
Also, our friend Bobby just suffered a heart attack and is on his way to a hospital about an hour away for treatment. Please pray for him and his family.

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

E Ring

"Easily one of the best shows on network television," raves some guy who doesn't get his name in a sound-byte promo.
The show gives us a glimpse of the politics of decision-making inside the Pentagon, probably slightly exaggerated to some degree but right on overall.
And, they don't use fake names of countries, like Booga-booga-stan.
They talk about real places, like Iran and Burundi.
Throw in Trevor Rabin's soundtrack and you've got a doozey.
Unfortunately, it's too smart for the "Dude, Where's My Car?" crowd and probably won't last a year.
But I'll enjoy it while it lasts.

Tuesday, October 11, 2005

Not a fan

The Bush administration rightfully earned much of the criticism it received over its repsonse to Hurricane Katrina.
I also do think something smells funny about all the Haliburton contracts.
On the whole I do support the administration's approach to the War on Terror and I think people like Cindy Sheehan are a distraction to an effort which is right on the whole (I think the WMDs are in the hands of people friendly to Saddam, but that's just a hopeful wild guess.).
Anyway, I do have one significant bone to pick about the nomination of Harriet Miers - it looks a bit too much like cronyism.
If I were the president, I'd be inclined to nominate someone I felt personally comfortable with and who'd given me what found to be solid advice.
But the president isn't the one with final say.
She probably can handle the job but even though the lean toward bench experience among court nominees is apparently fairly recent, I think it's a good trend. I think the president is committed to Ms. Miers but will probably have to rethink his approach after she gets shot down.

Sunday, October 02, 2005

Baby and job land

I haven't posted in a while. Sorry about that.
We've been busy dealing with some baby issues, some of them routine, others, well, we're just learning what works best for her in terms of feeding. On the scale of things nothing huge.
I'm also learning how best to do a new job, so it's been challenging but overall rewarding.
Gotta run check on the baby! More later.

Saturday, September 17, 2005

What's wrong with Vanderbilt!?

This is the first what I'm sure will be several blogs on college football this year.
Vanderbilt came screaming out the gate, kicking butts and taking names!
They currently hold a share of the lead (albeit early) in the SEC East.
Somebody forgot to tell this current bunch that they're supposed to let everyone else in the SEC win, the Washington Generals, if you will, of the conference.
This is one of the fascinating things about college football - sometimes as much as you think you have it figured out, something surprising happens.
This is a pleasant surprise and I wish them well against everyone except unless they play Alabama for the conference title (what a thought!) in December.

I stand corrected

It looks as though the early reports of the demise of the D-Day Museum in New Orleans were greatly exaggerated.

I'm glad and I hope they can move forward from this. I still can't get my mind around why Ambrose is gone. I hope someone can step into his place and serve as well in providing other generations a sense of the men and women who kept this country secure before, during and after World War II.

Thursday, September 15, 2005

OK ...

At the request of one the handful of regular readers of this blog, here's my side of the labor/delivery. (I'm saving an actual diary of the delivery for family use.)
When news came that Amanda's water broke, I still had about an hour's worth of work to finish. Not wanting to have it hanging over my head, I hurried to complete it. I got it out of the way, jumped in the van and got moving down the road.
We'd called ahead so they knew what they had coming.
Having dealt with the doctor before, I had a strong sense of confidence in his judgment about what was best. He'd alerted us that Amanda's birth canal might be too narrow for the baby to move through. So she pushed ahead with the labor and I kept track of what has happening (generally when the pitocin was increased, when we made decision about the epidural, the c-section, etc.). After a while, I needed some form of sleep, so I got a blanket and slept on the floor. Certainly it wasn't comfortable, but it wasn't anything like what Amanda was enduring.
When we started talking about the c-section, I was under the impression that Amanda the doctor left me with making the final decision, so I asked him point-blank, "What's the mortality rate?" He explained that it depends on the complication which led to the c-section. Somewhere along the line Amanda mentioned the multitude of our friends who've had c-sections who are still with us.
I eventually agreed that it was the best way we'd have a chance to see our daughter.
So, we got ready and I felt like it was over before it started. A couple of sharp, quick cries and we heard that our daughter had finally arrived. It seemed like we were watching them pull somebody else's baby out. Then they handed her to me.
I felt smitten in a wholesome sense, almost from the beginning. I want to do anything I can to help this child have the life she should have.
I'm not doing too well wit h the loss of sleep, but again, I'm not the one with an 8-12 inch incision, nor am I the one trying to do the actual feeding.
I'm coming to terms with the loss of a certain amount of control, but it's all for the good. We wanted her and we will do our best to provide for her.
That's it off the top of my head! Hope this fills in some gaps. More maybe later!

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

What she said :)

My wife's blog pretty much covers it all regarding the birth of our wonderful, long-awaited daughter Jadyn. I haven't forgotten that Amanda did all the work. I just went along for the ride and changed a few diapers.
I'm also not the one taking pain meds to get over the surgery.
For pics and all the details, please follow the link to my wife's blog!
Welcome to the world, Jadyn. We hope and pray the Lord's best for you and will do all we can to start you off on the right path.

Wednesday, September 07, 2005

(Potential) Clarity

If the reports are true that looters cleaned out the D-Day Museum in New Orleans, then I have a greater understanding why the late, fantastic World War II historian Stephen Ambrose passed away in what was arguably still his prime.
Not only did something he helped create get destroyed (again if this is true), he also made one of his homes in Bay St. Louis, Miss. More than likely, the house he lived in is also gone.
It's speculation at this point, but sometimes it helps to make sense of things, and that was one death I couldn't quite grasp at the time.
Quite possibly, the Lord spared him what was to come within the past few days.
It's at least a comforting thought.
More rants on Katrina as time and energy permit.
I'm out of both as of now.

Monday, September 05, 2005

Are the media slighting Mississippi?

In recent days, we've heard some complaints that national media - I'm sure it's largely about television outlets - have overlooked the conditions on this state's Gulf Coast in favor of the deterioration of New Orleans.
News decisions are weighed on unseen scales which can appear unfeeling.
Most often, the question is asked, "How many people will this impact for how long?" On a national level, from that perspective the question is easy to answer in terms of deploying assets - reporters, cameras, etc. New Orleans is a bigger story from that aspect alone in terms of flooding. Add the evacuation problems, the (at least limited) mayhem and the dead and we see why so much attention was paid.
But, some Mississippians argue - Why are our problems seemingly ignored?
At least much of New Orleans is still standing, they say. We have coastal towns which no longer exist - they were blown away as if by a by nuclear weapon and cities as much as three hours inland were impacted (Meridian, for example). Our northern cities are working feverishly to accomodate our neighbors from the south, opening shuttered schools and converting civic centers into long-term shelters.
Why isn't anyone paying attention to this, they ask?
As a native Alabamian, I've long suspected that national media look at the South with a jaundiced, superior eye. No one native to the South is capable of uttering a coherent sentence, the thinking seems to go.
However, in this case, I think the media are following sound news judgment on the whole.
Sure, Geraldo has, as is typical, lost his marbles a few times as word comes that some aspects of the New Orleans portion of the story have been overblown (the looting was supposedly limited to a very small area of town, for example).
But not all outlets are ignoring the plight of Mississippi and those of us in the state certainly understand how soundly the coast got licked. I know of a lady who was searching for nearly 20 friends from the coast last week. The loss of life and property there is still unfathomable.
If anyone reading this blog is unaware of the impact Katrina had on this state, please look at the following sites for a sampling (my efforts to make links don't seem to be working, so you may have to cut and paste):
The Clarion Ledger, Jackson
http://www.clarionledger.com/apps/pbcs.dll/frontpage
The Commercial Dispatch, Columbus
http://www.cdispatch.com/
The Sun Herald, Gulfport/Biloxi
http://www.sunherald.com/mld/sunherald/contact_us/
WLOX-TV Biloxi
http://www.wlox.com/
WAPT-TV Jackson
http://www.thejacksonchannel.com/index.html
The Meridian Star, Meridian
http://www.meridianstar.com/
WCBI-TV Columbus
http://www.wcbi.com/hurricane2.html

Saturday, September 03, 2005

The search for the perfect muffaleta

I went to college at the University of Alabama some (muffle, cough, shuffle papers) years ago and there was this shop called the International Deli that served a muffaleta (I'm not sure if I'm spelling it right) sandwich.
For those who don't know, muffaletas are New Orleans specialties. I can't remember what all they have on them, but I got hooked on them and went back several years later, only to find the place was different.
Since then, I've tried other places in the South which serve muffaletas and never found one which came close to the one at the Deli.
Last October, Amanda got to go on her first trip to New Orleans during our sixth anniversary celebration last October.
This was at least my third visit to the city, including an impromptu excursion one night from metro Mobile, Ala. more than 13 years ago.
We visited the French Quarter, the D-Day Museum, Cafe Du Monde and the Riverwalk shopping area. We enjoyed what we saw and pledged to go back. Now it may be a long time and the city may never be close to the same.
We stayed in an area off Gentilly which is probably under water and unfortunately, many of the people we rode the bus with into downtown are probably dead or were evacuated under the most recent extreme conditions.
A few blocks away, we went to a local restaurant which served what probably was an authentic muffaleta. I think I came away recalling that the International Deli version was pretty close to this.
Anyone with information on what constitutes a textbook muffaleta, please feel free to share as we try to remember the good things about New Orleans.

The Blame Game

America enjoys many sports, some of which people from within our own borders invented or perfected.
But our favorite is - who can we blame and how bad can we make them look? I'll take part a little bit but let me say this from the outset: There's plenty blame to go around. I don't think it can be placed at one person's feet.
No matter how badly people like Bill Maher want President George Bush to fall in disgrace, I don't think this situation has any one clear bad guy, though clearly there's plenty blame to go around.
By the way, maybe Bill Maher ought to take his scrawny butt down to the Big Easy and help out instead of flapping his gums about this being Bush's "Waterloo." I would go but I have a baby on the way, I'm still moving and I'm trying to find other ways to help.
Mayor Ray Nagin told people to go to the Superdome as a last resort, but for some reason, the resources weren't in place to help people when they arrived, so we had a literal stinking mess with death and the worst of humanity all around.
The feds appear not to have taken the initiative to overstep local and state authority, but that may be out of reluctance to set a precedent or simply not knowing where to start, not out of a lack of concern or turning a blind eye because the overwhelming majority of those left behind are black.
The situation in New Orleans for those who legitimately need help is horrifying.
Why did it take so long for help to start arriving? The answer isn't immediately clear, but I do wonder if our military resources are stretched way too thin.
Maybe there was a reluctance to send in the regular Army and use the same ammunition we're using in the War on Terror. It sounds like we should clear New Orleans on a house-to-house, block by block effort and apparently those resources are not available.
We should have had at least two brigades of regular Army ground-pounders in place by now alongside the National Guardsmen.
While everyone knew New Orleans was built in a bowl, why wasn't there a coherent plan to clear it out if something catastrophic happened? I have no idea, but maybe we need to learn a whole bunch of lessons out of this.
Ok, time to go make another move run. More later.

Thursday, September 01, 2005

We're OK

We're in a part of Mississippi that didn't really get hammered, even though the wind howled and the rain blew - we've seen stuff like this before.
But we haven't seen - in this nation, in this generation - the destruction wrought on the Coast.
Sure, we've got a good deal of stress with the move still happening while we're waiting on the baby, and honestly, I haven't handled it well.
But all in all, we're OK. We're not missing anybody and we have a general idea where all our stuff is. It's not underwater and it's not scattered (not by natural forces anyway).
That's it for now. Maybe more later.

Saturday, August 27, 2005

The move ...

is underway with the help of a bunch of wonderful people. We're loaded up and about to pull out with our first load to the new house. Thanks so much to all who've shown up!

Friday, August 26, 2005

I don't like multi-tasking

My wife says I need to blog more so here's a quick one in between what seems like 1 million things going on right now. (Apologies to Jackie for not posting on her blog. Please forgive me!)
I'm not sure what sadistic person came up with the notion of multi-tasking, but I noticed something recently when I tried to find books about how humans are supposed to do this - I don't recall finding a single one about how people multi-task - it was all about multi-tasking programs!
Well, it's off to the store with my wife so she doesn't lift anything heavy.
Prayers will be greatly appreciated in this massively stressful time of transition. Later!

Friday, August 19, 2005

It's a good day

Several people know that the due date of our expected child is Sept. 11.
Some have reacted that it's a terrible day to have a baby born on that date.
The likelihood the baby will come into this world then is remote.
But I beg to differ that it's a bad day for a good thing to happen.
We forget that all kinds of good things happened that day.
For a day, we forgot that we were black, white, Hispanic, etc.
For a day, we forgot that individuals weren't more important than people.
For a day, we forgot we were a divided nation.
For a day, we had dozens and dozens of heroes, many of whom aren't here with us today.
Too bad we've collectively forgotten what we forgot that day.
I've made a little disc - don't worry RIAA, it's not for sale - of songs and tracks (all paid for) relevant to the events of 9/11 and/or its aftermath - just to remind me that no matter how bad my day at work was, I've never had a day like that.
If the baby is born that day, I have a name in mind. Grandma doesn't like it but it will get strong consideration if she's born on 9/11. We'll just leave it at that for now, and that for all the bad that happened on that day nearly four years ago - it's a good day.

What I'm missing

This is a quick note before my wife (and baby) and I go out to eat.
Blogging seems to create a really interesting mish-mash electronic community of people we know in person and are learning about through posts.
My wife, YankeeAmanda, is having a lot of fun at this and I hope to join this crowd a bit more, though I try to keep relatively anonymous so I don't let my opinions get mixed up with my other work.
Most of the people involved in this hodge-podge would probably tell me just to get over myself and have fun.
Hopefully that's what I'll do!

Monday, August 08, 2005

Views on the War

In general, I'm in support of our nation's global pursuit of terrorists.
As a Christian, I'm conflicted about my visceral desire to see faceless cowards meet an untimely death at the hands of shadow warriors, exterminating the threat before it even surfaces - before they slice off the heads of innocent civilians, denotate improvised explosive devices with a cell phone from a mile away and snuff out life in random yet calculated efforts to disrupt Western civilization.
Scripture encourages us to pray for our enemies and see them come to know the Lord. Do these enemies pose a threat so great as to ride our anger to its ultimate conclusion? Or do we merely sit around and wait for the next high-profile target to fall victim to the deluded?
Somewhere in between lies the right answer.
In the mean time, I'll pray.
I'll also pray that somehow our military leaders use the knowledge gleaned from the tactics of the mujahadeen in Afghanistan against the Soviets to protect our men and women.
Somehow I've gotten the impression that our military leaders have said that they don't know how to combat IED attacks because we've never had experience with them.
Maybe they haven't said it, but it's how they're acting.
Maybe they didn't tell us everything they were doing, but the mujahadeen - whom we supported as I understand - used tactics very similar to those being employed by the "insurgents" in Iraq. Remember that bin Laden supposedly was among the mujahadeen at some point along the way.
Here's an example I saw on television:
The mujahadeen would get explosives, implant them on or near the road bed, then recreate tank track impressions over the explosive-laden area. Then, BOOM! (I saw this on a recent Military Channel show the name of which I never caught.)
So let's use the knowledge - whether we taught them how to do it or not - to save lives and get us back to the job at hand, securing Iraq enough to turn it over to the Iraqis.
I have a friend who's being deployed soon and I want to see her come home in one piece and alive. I don't think it's too much to ask that we do everything we can to keep our sons, daughters, sisters, brothers and friends alive as they go about their duties.